Every life-changing decision makes you wonder. Am I right? Did I make a good decision? Wouldn’t it better if I stayed at the previous course?
It is natural to have that question. Who wouldn’t? You made a big step. The change is enormous. Your normal day is not same as before. You may need to double your effort to keep up with everything, but still there is no 100% guarantee. You wish the best, at least better than now. But who knows? At the same time, your friend looks doing fine. The people in your previous course are moving forward, when you are investing your time for something totally new. You ask yourself everyday. Am I on right track?
The problem is … you don’t know the answer. Nobody knows whether you made right decision or not until you get there. You were thrown up in the air without knowing where you would land. Sometimes you made the decision. Sometimes you are forced to do.
Time to time, you hear story about someone become successful by making big jump. The story give you hope. But time to time, you hear story about someone made breakthrough by sticking to her course. The story made you wonder.
But what can you do? Decision is already made by you or someone else. You are lucky if you made the decision.
When you become confused, stay calm; look inside your heart; and ask yourself. Are you wondering because you are afraid? Are you wondering because you are tired? Are you wondering because you don’t want to pay the cost?
Most of time, you would answer ‘yes’ to the questions. Ask one more question. Do you believe that you made a right decision? If you can answer ‘yes’ to this question, you are the happiest person. You separate yourself from the pack of people who can’t challenge their status quo. You are on an adventure. You were just tired.
Get some rest and move forward! Don’t stop! Don’t waste your time and energy with looking back!
Good luck with your journey 🙂